"I can't read your mind, only your emotions. You are afraid of your anger. Of lashing out. I understand that."

Because he told her in addition to her being able to feel it.

"But I get the feeling that you think this is something I am equipped to help you with and others may not be. I am open to helping, you just need to tell me how."

If he needs help finding a center, or a shift between states, then she can help. But he may have another idea in mind.